Feature Film + Q&A

Between Goodbyes

  • September 2
  • 20:00
  • Krachtstation

A tender documentary about the complexities of guilt and misunderstandings between an adoptee and her original family.

What does it mean to belong to a family or a country? What happens a decade (or two) after the reunion between an adoptee and their original family? In this documentary, a queer Korean adoptee visits her original mother in Seoul, causing long-held regrets and cultural misunderstandings to come to the surface alongside tenderness, humour, and tenacity. Born of frustration with love-washed adoption myths, this film centres adoptee voices and the original families erased by coercive systems. It doesn’t ask why parents give up their children from a perspective of guilt, instead focusing on the societal pressures and limited choices that lead people to relinquish their parenthood. As the makers of the film state: “In making this film, we aim to re-educate the public and remove the stigma associated with being an original mother or parent.”

With a Q&A after the screening, speaker TBA. 

Program partner
International Film Festival Assen

Film facts

  • Genres: Documentary
  • Original title: Between Goodbyes
  • Director: Jota Mun
  • Year: 2024
  • Country: South-Korea, US
  • Running time: 96 minutes
  • Language: Korean, English, Dutch
  • Subtitles: English
Awards
  • San Diego Asian Film Festival 2024 – Winner: Audience Award
  • VC FilmFest - Los Angeles Asian Pacific Film Festival 2024 – Winner: Best documentary feature
  • Santa Fe International Film Festival 2024 – Winner: Documentary feature
  • DMZ International Documentary Film Festival 2024 – Winner: Emerging Documentary Filmmaker Award
  • Zinegoak Bilbao International GLT Film Festival 2025 – Winner: Best Documentary Feature Film
  • Cinemasia Film Festival 2025 – Winner: Best Film
  • International Queer & Migrant Film Festival 2025 – Winner: Best short

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